When I was little, my friend and I vowed to never become like our mothers. Well, here's how I did exactly that.

When I was little, my friend and I vowed to never become like our mothers. Well, here's how I did exactly that.

While my friend and I were chatting, I witnessed my mother talking in immense detail about a fern—a type of flowerless plant. My mom wanted to know where the fern was purchased, how much water the fern required, and which window the fern needed to be placed in order to get the maximum amount of light. They talked for over half an hour. My friend and I looked at our mothers in astonishment. We then promised one another that we would never become like our mothers—talking at length about a plant. We were destined to do more important things in our life.



We got pregnant after winning a raffle ticket.

We got pregnant after winning a raffle ticket.

My husband was on board. Our close family members were frightened. Our friends thought we were crazy. And the last few words of most conversations with others were, “Y’all will be pregnant in a few months. Just watch,” often uttered with worry and grimace.

To Husbands: 4 (Insider) Tips To Naturally Enhance Your Wife's Level of Respect for You

 To Husbands: 4 (Insider) Tips To Naturally Enhance Your Wife's Level of Respect for You

Do you want your wife to respect you out of fear and intimidation, or out of love for your personhood, character, and seen example? I believe the former has caused some men to exhibit misogynistic, aggressive, and intimidating behavior that is both unbiblical and deeply troubling.

Jesus never demanded respect.

It was freely given to Him by those who had ears to hear and eyes to see.